feat: host-level watch flag suppresses notifications; filter dashboard/overview by owner/manager; add ZFS monitor plugin

- watch: true (default) per host; watch: false suppresses all notifications
  for that host in udp.py and threshold.py
- Live Dashboard and Host Overview now show only hosts where the logged-in
  user is owner or manager (admins see all); WebSocket broadcasts filtered
  per-connection by the same rule
- Add hbd/client/plugins/zfs_monitor.py: collects per-pool health, capacity,
  fragmentation, dedup ratio, and cumulative I/O ops/bandwidth via zpool(8)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

hbd/server/config.py

@@ -225,7 +225,7 @@ def get_watchhosts(config):
     hosts_config = config.get("hosts", {})
     if isinstance(hosts_config, dict):
         for host_name, host_attrs in hosts_config.items():
-            if isinstance(host_attrs, dict) and host_attrs.get("watch", False):
+            if isinstance(host_attrs, dict) and host_attrs.get("watch", True):
                 watchhosts.append(host_name)
     return watchhosts