send shutdown msg only if we sent a boot msg. Don't send eithe when restarting.

hbd/client/main.py

@@ -463,7 +463,7 @@ async def cleanup(connections: List[AsyncConnection]):
     logger.info("Cleaning up connections")
     
     target = next((c for c in connections if c.transport), connections[0] if connections else None)
-    if target:
+    if target and send_shutdown:
         try:
             await target.sendto({"shutdown": 1, "acks": target.ackcount})
         except Exception as e:
@@ -477,7 +477,7 @@ async def cleanup(connections: List[AsyncConnection]):
 
 async def async_main(args, config):
     """Async main function."""
-    global running, shutdown_event, active_tasks
+    global running, shutdown_event, active_tasks, send_shutdown 
     
     # Create shutdown event
     shutdown_event = asyncio.Event()
@@ -525,10 +525,13 @@ async def async_main(args, config):
     logger.info(f"Created {len(connections)} connections")
     
     # Send boot/message if requested
+    send_shutdown = False
     if args.boot or args.message:
         boot_msg = {}
         if args.boot:
             boot_msg["boot"] = 1
+            args.boot = False  # Clear boot flag so we don't send it again in main loop
+            send_shutdown = True
         if args.message:
             boot_msg["service"] = "service"
             boot_msg["msg"] = args.message